Bisexuality fact sheet
By Civil Service LGBT+ Network
The bisexuality fact sheet is designed to raise awareness of bisexuality and the experiences of bisexual people. You can help by distributing it with your colleagues and networks.
You may want to use this fact sheet to to:
- send it to your team or directorate, including a link to this blog
- create space to discuss the factsheet at a team-meeting, away-day or in other relevant meetings
- use it as an opportunity to engage with your HR Diversity and Inclusion Team, LGBT staff network, or senior LGBT Champion on how to create an inclusive work environment
- print out some copies of the factsheet to leave in the communal areas of your workplace
Download this publication
This publication is available as a PDF.
Bisexuality means attraction to more than one gender.
But what is it like to be bisexual in the workplace?
In the Civil Service LGBT+ Network, we want everyone to feel included and valued for who they are. However, we know bisexual civil servants feel less included than their gay and heterosexual peers.
|Bisexual civil servants||As a result, we are|
|Want a greater sense of community, having felt excluded from both ‘straight’ and‘LGBT+’spaces.||Running dedicated, social and supportive events and an online community space for bisexual civil servants.|
|Feel invisible as a result of a lack of recognition and role models in the workplace and wider society.||Raising the profile of bisexual civil servants, including senior role models, departmental LGBT+ networks, and HR teams to monitor, recognise and support minority sexual identities.|
|Face negative stereotypes, assumptions, a lack of understanding about their identities, and intrusive questions.||Providing knowledge information and support to individuals, networks and departments.|
|Are more likely to experience bullying, discrimination and harassment.||Investigating how training and guidance can be developed or improved with in the wider Civil Service and also within LGBT+ spaces.|
|Can face multiple barriers to full participation in the workplace, due to other aspects of their lives and identities in interaction with their sexual orientation.||Working with other Civil Service diversity networks and organising joint initiatives.|
Bisexual means attraction to more than one gender.
Pansexual means attraction to all genders or attraction to people regardless of gender.
Some people are comfortable with both labels and may use them interchangeably. Other are only comfortable using one term. It is important to respect a person’s identity and how they choose to describe themselves.
What can Allies do?
Allies avoid making assumptions about a person’s sexual orientation or gender.
Allies make space so that the quiet/unnoticed/missing voices can be heard.
Allies consider their own behaviour; ask for feedback, reflect, adapt and learn how to be have in ways that invite people in, instead of pushing them away.
Allies challenge constructively when they see something going wrong – an inappropriate comment or an interaction that is failing to build relationships.
Allies follow the appropriate bullying and harassment procedure if they become aware of biphobic behaviour.
Allies take into account that every bi experience is different and does not solely define a person.
Allies inform themselves and seek sources of information independently rather than assuming minority colleagues are there to inform them.
“In society, bi women can often be fetishised. Bi men can be stereotyped as being closeted gay men.”
“It can be challenging to explain that it’s a sexuality that exists beyond the gender of your partner, that you’re not flipping between two binary states.”
“It can be a struggle of being not quite gay enough or not quite straight, resulting in exclusion and feeling like you don’t quite belong anywhere.”
“I have been seeing someone of the same sex for quite some time… I am incredibly hesitant to reveal this and constantly feel like I can’t be my true self at work.”
“I feel completely comfortable and have been out from starting in the Civil Service one year ago. Everyone in my team has behaved completely appropriately, as if it is no big deal - which for me, it isn’t.”
Find out more
You can find out more about the Civil Service LGBT+ Network, the work we are doing to support bi+ civil servants, and information about our BiSpace events on our website, www.civilservice.lgbt.
BiSpace is an initiative run by bi+ civil servants, for bi+ civil servants. (‘Bi+’ encompassing bi, pan, ace, queer)
It’s a chance to meet fellow bisexual, pansexual, queer and asexual civil servants in different parts of the country, particularly London, Bristol and Manchester.
Sign up to the mailing list at www.civilservice.lgbt/join-us to find out more.
“If I tell my colleagues I went to visit my girlfriend last weekend, they may assume that I identity as lesbian. It could he uncomfortable to have to add ‘but I’m also attracted to men’, or ‘I’ve also had male partners’, or even ‘but I’m not gay I’m bi’. It’s important to avoid making assumptions about someone’s sexuality if they have not explicitly come out.”
“I feel like I’m constantly managing where people are on the basis of my relationship with them – what they know, how comfortable I feel, what version of myself to put out in those different contexts, how safe do I feel with this person, how much of myself do I show? It is exhausting.”
“I don’t know why it matters but I don’t want to be misrecognised as something that I am not.”
“It’s the repetitive process of coming out to the same people, again and again and again.”
Bi Visibility Day
Bi Visibility Day is on 23 September every year. The day celebrates the bisexual community, raises awareness of bisexuality, and highlights biphobia and bi-erasure. 2019 marks the 20th anniversary of the day. Visit bivisibilityday.com to find out more.